The choice

I am realizing I have a choice of how to approach relationships. I can approach them to see what I can get out of it. That is called selfishness. Or I can approach it and see how I can be the best friend possible to the other person. That is called love. As I go to God to get my needs met I can help others. And by giving love I get it returned to me. I should have learned this a LONG time ago.